Thursday 1 October 2009

How To Be A Ladies' Man

By Tim Tolands

There are more woman in the world than men, so why can't you get a date? It may be that your approach is wrong. You don't have to look like a movie star to find a lady. If you don't want to spend another Saturday nigh alone, listen up. Any man can get a date if he has the right approach and approaches the right lady. They don't want to be alone on Saturday night either.

If you are trying to get attention with a clever pick up line, don't. Women have heard them all and most of them don't work. If you learn the right way to approach a woman for the first time, you won't need to use a line.

While you object may be physical intimacy, women want to feel emotional intimacy before taking a relationship to a physical level. Think about your best assets and decide what you need to change to make yourself a better person. Join a gym, get involved with community projects, clean up your act and stop moping around.

If you are ready to start learning, you better read on.

The first thing that you need to do is to check yourself in the mirror. You've probably heard of all the sentimental gibberish about "beauty" not being a subject of physical appearance. In truth, it is and you have to accept that harsh fact. If you can't make yourself look like a celebrity, at least you should try to look presentable for your date. Make sure that you smell good and are suitably dressed for the occasion.

Personality is mirrored by your manners. Whether you're a person of meager means or someone who owns half of a countryside estate, your manners and conduct will speak for your true self. Women always favor a gentleman over a man who is rude and arrogant.

Pay attention to your lady. Listen to what she is saying with words and what she is saying with body language. You can tell if a woman is receptive or uncomfortable. If she's not comfortable, try to set her at ease. Avoid being overly aggressive. Just be relaxed and friendly.

Give her lots of attention, but don't hover. Use humor to entertain and relax her. Let her know that as far as you're concerned, she is the most beautiful woman in the room. Discuss topics that interest you both and keep the conversation going. If you end up at a restaurant or club that doesn't live up to its promise, ask her if she'd like to go somewhere else.

The best way to win a woman's heart is by complimenting her. A simple compliment such as, "You look beautiful in your dress," or "You have a great smile," can score you unlimited points in the dating arena. Woman like feeling appreciated, and that's the exact thing that you make them feel when you throw them a compliment.

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