Sunday 8 November 2009

How to Correctly Use Humor to Get Women

By Maxwell Durden

To the casual observer, it looks very frank that women are naturally wired to be drawn to guys with a sense of humor. Yet, this is only part of the actual truth that appears to elude all but the most observant men.

Actually, the most powerful weapon that a man has to attract women is his flirting skill. To flirt is to interact with women in both a provocative and humorous manner at the same time.

What makes flirting so important?

If you watch what really goes on in male-female interactions, you'll come to realize that flirting is absolutely vital to make a women consider you as an option. Before I stray too far from the subject, let me go into a little bit more detail about why simply cracking jokes won't make her swoon.

Sure, a woman may enjoy a good sense of humor, but that doesn't mean that she is feeling any closer to the funny guy. If you make a women laugh outside of the context of flirting, then you will just make her your friend.

Some guys may read this and take it to mean that they should go full force on a woman, laying the sweet talk on thick. Nothing could be further from the truth. You have to avoid being overbearing to a woman, or you will just freak her out and think you are some sort of bad guy. So what do you do? You mix humor in with your sweet talk. You appeal to her romantic side while making her laugh to disarm her.

Don't over complicate things, either. Flirting properly can be an extremely fun thing to master. Sure, it takes a little bit of practice, but remember that once you know how to properly flirt with a woman, you have an unfair advantage over most men because very few men really know how to do this.

Most men fully realize that humor plays an important role in having positive interactions with women. However, what most men miss is that humor must be delivered a certain way. Most guys never dream in a million years that there is a right and a wrong way to use humor.

Women are attracted to masters of flirting, not clowns.

If you learn just one thing from this article, I hope that it's this: instead of trying to discover how to make women laugh, learn how to make women comfortable, entertained, and attracted. That's how you achieve true success with women.

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