It can be very lonely in the world of gay dating. Many men only want a physical connection and when you're looking for true intimacy it's not always easy to find someone who cares about you as a person as well as wants to spend the night.
Then there's the bi-curious guys that want to run out the door as soon as their finished.
How Do You Find a Healthy Balanced Gay Relationship?
Here are my top tips for healthy gay dating.
Make Sure He's Gay - Have a long conversation with him. Ask him how long he's been gay. Find out when the last time he dated a woman was. If he hesitates, he's probably lying. Talk to him about how attractive men are (in particular him). If he's uncomfortable with speaking about being gay - he isn't!
Work Out - How you look physically will determine to some extent how lucky you are at attracting men. A well chiseled physique will have more boys coming after you. Of course there are some great guys who care less about looks, but you might as well attract them all!
Play Hard to Get - Don't get sexual on the first date. I know that men have huge problems with waiting. If you're serious about having a longer lasting sexual relationship with a man, make him wait before you get in bed with him. Enjoy a few hours of making out spread over a few dates before anything further progresses.
It's a Numbers Game - The more you get out there, the more likely you are to meet Mr Right (or at least Mr Right Now). Go to more gay clubs, bars, restaurants and beaches where you're surrounded by other gay men. Spend more time with gay friends and be active.
Use Technology - It can save a lot of time by using gay dating services online. If you have an iphone, you can connect with gay men in your area virtually any time of day (well worth getting an iphone immediately just for that). There are other great gay dating sites that I recommend to all of my blog readers as well.
The bottom line is to use common sense. A serious relationship won't be built if there isn't a real connection and serious trust. Many people are only looking to hook up physically, but it can damage your self esteem if you are too promiscuis.
It's easier now than ever to meet hot men quickly with modern technology. A few random hookups can be a lot of fun and if you want to get lucky tonight, you actually can. Use it wisely and you'll never be lonely when you don't want to be.
Then there's the bi-curious guys that want to run out the door as soon as their finished.
How Do You Find a Healthy Balanced Gay Relationship?
Here are my top tips for healthy gay dating.
Make Sure He's Gay - Have a long conversation with him. Ask him how long he's been gay. Find out when the last time he dated a woman was. If he hesitates, he's probably lying. Talk to him about how attractive men are (in particular him). If he's uncomfortable with speaking about being gay - he isn't!
Work Out - How you look physically will determine to some extent how lucky you are at attracting men. A well chiseled physique will have more boys coming after you. Of course there are some great guys who care less about looks, but you might as well attract them all!
Play Hard to Get - Don't get sexual on the first date. I know that men have huge problems with waiting. If you're serious about having a longer lasting sexual relationship with a man, make him wait before you get in bed with him. Enjoy a few hours of making out spread over a few dates before anything further progresses.
It's a Numbers Game - The more you get out there, the more likely you are to meet Mr Right (or at least Mr Right Now). Go to more gay clubs, bars, restaurants and beaches where you're surrounded by other gay men. Spend more time with gay friends and be active.
Use Technology - It can save a lot of time by using gay dating services online. If you have an iphone, you can connect with gay men in your area virtually any time of day (well worth getting an iphone immediately just for that). There are other great gay dating sites that I recommend to all of my blog readers as well.
The bottom line is to use common sense. A serious relationship won't be built if there isn't a real connection and serious trust. Many people are only looking to hook up physically, but it can damage your self esteem if you are too promiscuis.
It's easier now than ever to meet hot men quickly with modern technology. A few random hookups can be a lot of fun and if you want to get lucky tonight, you actually can. Use it wisely and you'll never be lonely when you don't want to be.
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You have shared great tips on gay dating success. Now I will first chat with someone before starting my relationship and I will consider these tips. I am using Gay Dating App since last couple of years and I have met online so many guys till now, but never thought to physical date someone.
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